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| StephenRichards Demystifies The Power Of Forgiveness |
As
human beings, we are custom made to be happy. Why then would we want to change
the order of things by not being happy?
Usually, when someone has done
something wrong to us, we feel like we have the right to feel bitter towards
them. At that moment it is actually the driving force and we are very liable to
being duped into thinking that we are on the right track, yet we are actually
headed for a really bad scenario.
From this point forward, this
bitterness is the driving force. It becomes the air we breathe and without it,
nothing seems to be in place. However, we are breathing in toxic air and
basically harming ourselves in the process.
The risky thing with always blaming
the other person is that we will never acknowledge that the same things keep
happening over and over again, therefore we will not know how to rise up and
put an end to the bad trend.
The moment we see beyond our personal desires to be felt
sympathy for, that is the time we can actually start the journey to that final
destination of true forgiveness.
Hanging on to the ill-feeling is
not a good direction to take because it is most likely to create friction and
disharmony between you and that person.
If you forgive them, even internally, it
does not matter whether you say it to them or you do not, it will simply be
visible when you interact with them – you will both be happier.
Discover more about this in the book by Stephen Richards in the link below
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