When you want something, there is a beginning, middle and an end. You firstly decide what it is you want, and then you get it and then finally think about how you will pay for it. The main thing is that you have got it, and once you have it in your possession you will do all you can to keep it. Now go get it!
Stop harboring grudges against those who have wronged you, it just holds you back when you really want to be in the NOW.
Learn to forgive others so that you can release yourself from being held captive by the very negative thoughts around you. You are not forgiving others just for the sake of it; you are forgiving them so you can set yourself free.
Have you noticed how some people are successful without even trying; they seem to glide through life. What is theirsecret? Simple! They are focused! This is what you must do if you want what youdesire. Do not waste your time on the detail of it, just go for it BIG time. Successful people have the ability to change direction without any warning. Adopt this methodology and become flexible to life around you so that you canbecome a winner. This is what sets winners apart from losers.
Never be frightened to accept help, as pride iften comes before a fall. When you want to be successful then the main key is to delegate the mundane jobs to others. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who want to see you get on in life. If you have negative-minded friends then, sorry, you have to dump them, as they will only succeed in stopping you from going forward. So be brave in your mind about jettisoning that extra baggage that is holding you back.
Never put something off until tomorrow what you can do today. Never allow anyone to impose their views on you or to dissuade you from doing it, as they are wasting your time. If you fail then look on this as a learning curve, as it will stand you in good stead in being able to avoid such problems again.
Be thankful for what you have, give praise and never hold back in lending support where you can give it, as this will be returned to you tenfold and more. Make your dreams a reality by being clear and precise about what you want, stop being vague.
Feel worthy of your desires, tell yourselfyou deserve to be successful and that you are successful. So long as you arehealthy then you have the ability to succeed, be thankful for that.
Anything good that comes along should be accepted with praise. Stop being selfish with praise towards yourself and others, if you can’t say anything good then don’t say anything bad. Give what you can when you can, even if it is simply holding a door open for someone, see how good it makes you feel. Random acts of kindness should be given from the heart, you cannot plan for them.
Negative-minded people can drain you of your energy, so shield yourself from these psychic vampires by staying in ahigh state of mind, it will block them out and they will soon get the message.Ensure the environment you are in is conducive to you staying in a state ofpositive vibrancy, as this can block your positive thoughts from manifesting what you desire.
Wherever possible, mix with like-minded people. If you all have the same goals for success then this can have a synergistic effect and propel you forward faster than if you tried on your own.If you sense bad vibes in the group then you have to detach from them. It is also important that you get to spend some time on your own, as this is when thecreative part of your mind can work at its best in making your dreams cometrue. Spend time reflecting on what is negative and what is positive in yourlife, then have a clear out!
Don’t take things too seriously, enjoy what you are doing and make it something you want to do, as opposed to what you haveto do. Learn to control yourself, become good at spotting when you are starting to worry unnecessarily and counter it with positive thoughts. Look at your position in life now, then project your thoughts forward to six months ahead and see the difference. Make that happen, condition yourself that it WILL happen.
Remember the song about smiling, well that is true ... the whole world smiles with you. Your smile is an outward sign that you are a happy person, and successful people smile, they do not have worry etched across their faces. Try it, smile at a stranger and see what happens, of course be sure to do it in the right environment. When you get a smile inreturn it is making you feel good and adds to your depth of energy reserves. So go around and collect smiles and charge your tank to overflowing with energy. You will find you become more popular and soon you will attract luck inwhatever you do.
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